Take a deep breath

There are so many important aspects of planning that go into a wedding - venue, church, flowers, transportation, photographer, DJ/band, dress. tux, favors, decor, invitations, save-the-dates, room blocks, cake, food, drinks....I could go on.  I think they all individually can be daughting to think about, but that is the great thing about the wedding, they are not alone on an indivual basis.  They all come together to a magical concoction of you.  I work with many brides that begin to get overwhelmed at the invitation font or the particular shade of periwinkle, things that in reality, are not worth the stress.  As a wedding coordinator, my job is to releive some of that stress that you brides feel.  You should remember that we, your vendors, are here to help you through these decisions.  One thing to keep in mind through the whole planning process is that this is supposed to be FUN!  And at the end, you are marrying the man you love.  If you keep things in perspective and don't let the little things bother you, (beleive me, the type of font will not change anyone's opinion of your big day) you will enjoy not only the wedding day, but the whole process.  And when things do get heavy and you need a break, just take a deep breath (OK maybe a nice yoga session or a good run will do the trick too).